skynet74, She doesn't want to have anything to do with you. I have a new girlfriend who I'm happy with anyway. She is totally ICE COLD! She moved out. In my last email I sent, I was frustrated that she never responds. She was in another relationship, and had been for over a year at this time. After not seeing, or speaking for 3-4 years, I sent her a simple "Congratulations on the marriage and baby! I wasn't a horrible boyfriend and she wasn't a horrible girlfriend either. Reasons why your ex is ignoring you They still love you. I did decide to not bother with her anymore after getting no response for such a long period of time. She doesn't. Seeing your ex’s name pop up on your phone can produce a visceral reaction, like the one Glantz mentioned above. That sealed the deal. This could be because of her involvement with the boyfriend, or perhaps she fears you won't get over her and she has no feelings towards you. The time after a break up can be a confusing and harrowing experience to get through with your emotions in tact. BREAKUPS SURE SUCK. maybe she just feels uncomfortable? just send her one last one saying "ok i take it you dont wanna stay in touch at any level, was just letting you know about the photos. So in the here and now she has no emotional interest in you... Period ! About a year ago, I got a text from an ex telling me he wanted my advice on something. HOWEVER, while you need them to eventually reply to you and begin talking with you regularly again in order to get them back, you can do a few things to change how they’re acting right now, and make them WANT to reply to you and even to reach out on their own initiative. terms of trying to rekindle the interest of an ex is to hound her with calls and messages Besides.... she was still in Single mode and wanted to sow her wild oats. She is totally ICE COLD! She just turned into a jerk three years ago and she clearly hasn't changed at all since. BTW, if that is your avatar, you are very cute. Anyway... it doesn't matter anymore. That unfortunate situation ruined our 10 years together. I wasn't a horrible boyfriend and she wasn't a horrible girlfriend either. My X and I parted ways last summer...she chose the breakup (though I sure made her decision easier...I blew it). What goes through a womans head for her to reject all contact from an EX three years after the break up? You two just had a nasty break up and he’s having trouble letting it go and moving on. This is no longer about getting back together. I'd like her to respect it. I just want to know what to do with all these pictures she forgot? She is starting to turn into my mother when it comes to guys. I definitely don't want to be in My ex-girlfriends life if I'm not welcome. and forget about it. She doesn't. I saw her almost everyday because I loved her. Try not to take it personally, no one knows what's in her head but her...and if she chooses not to share that information there's really nothing you can do. So if she responds I'll just go from there. He is very open about it and he wants me to meet his ex. I got nothing in return, and didn't expect anything in return. I haven't spoken to her sister in a while. IS IS HOW THEY FEEL IN THE HERE AND NOW. If not, then perhaps she wasn't the girl you thought she was. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for 10 years. I don't feel quite so bad anymore, and now I also know what to so with the pictures. I think you have to do no contact forever now. Hard lines...but it's the only way I can move on and look forward. She is intentionaly not responding and is being purposely difficult. She probably thinks that you are using the pictures as an excuse to talk to her. They were not very happy with her. It must feel like you have wasted 10 years. I can think of only two reasons an ex would avoid any contact in the way you describe, even after years have gone by. She is intentionaly not responding and is being purposely difficult. Isn't that nice? Photos of her graduation that her classmates personally signed to her. Now the ball is in her court. Some things are best left alone, forever. I ignore her completely. The new guy died of Alcohol poisoning 6 weeks after the Ex left me for him. I had not contacted her since last August. She has a BF and I know they are happy. So me and my ex broke up in july. And you need to ask yourself why are you so eager to get in contact with her to “give them back”. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for 10 years. In my last email I sent, I was frustrated that she never responds. My college ex sent me an email about three years after we broke up. I've been going out with this girl for almost 6 months. BTW, if that is your avatar, you are very cute. Yeah I've done the hard receipt thing. 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